She is the motivation
I have been planning moving to Thailand since before COVID was a thing. I hadn't really figured out the details, but I knew I wanted to move to Thailand and live there, and I didn't want to wait for retirement. Then COVID hit, and my planning stages went on hold, as I had to get a job.
Once travel started opening up, I started planning again. I even booked a trip to Phuket to scope out some rentals for me to live in. I was also thinking it would be nice to have a friend (or more) in Thailand, and thought I would get to know a few girls just to dip my toes back into the Thai culture. I had talked to a few girls, and they were wonderful to talk to, but then, SHE came around, and we started talking.
I asked if she could meet me for lunch in Bangkok, before I headed off to Phuket. She agreed! She lives 4 HOURS from Bangkok, and was willing to come meet me? We continued to talk, and we talked ALL. THE. TIME. Before long, I invited her to join me to Phuket for the two weeks. Yes, I am a bit crazy, but we were video chatting for many hours each day, every day.
It was 5 weeks of hell before the trip. We could not wait to meet each other. When we finally met, it was amazing. I have never been so comfortable with someone ever, and she was the same. We were both a bit nervous, but also calm.
We went to Phuket and had the best 2 weeks of vacation. We also planned our future.
She is my motivation to move to Thailand quicker.